I’ve been thinking about this idea a lot lately.
I guess it’s because I have seen success sabotaging behaviour in myself as a pattern that’s repeated throughout my career.
I also see a repeating pattern in the way many of my clients behave when it comes to making a change they know will be good for them.
When I know I have to make change, and that this change will potentially be great for me, here’s what I do.
I complain about the status quo and how unfair and unsatisfying that is to numerous (extraordinarily patient) friends.
Then I do a whole bunch of other things that are seemingly urgent, but not actually productive and going to help me in my plans.
When I have the air space to implement my idea, I find myself procrastinating and calling friends just for a chat, rather than sitting on my seat and getting on with what I need to do.
I talk about my new idea a lot to people, and I mean a lot.
And then after exhausting myself, I revert back to doing what I know I do well, until I have the next bright idea about changing something. [click to continue…]
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