Many of my clients who come for resume or LinkedIn help, think that the stories they have to share about themselves are not worthwhile.
This plays out in a few ways.
They procrastinate on answering the questions I send to help us construct their resume or LinkedIn profile.
Or they don’t even start answering them.
They talk down their achievements – thinking if they can do something – “anyone can”.
They don’t spend a decent amount of time in any reflection process, that’s about them and them alone.
Or more and more lately – they give up on writing anything themselves and ask AI to do it for them.
I totally get all this behaviour. When I was down on myself when I worked in my corporate role, I could not see anything that was clearly positive about myself. I could only think about what was not working.
Sometimes you can fall so far down a rabbit hole like the one I was in, that you can’t even recognise that you’re suffering from thinking you’re not good enough.
It just never occurs to you that there could be something good out there for you, and/or that you fundamentally deserve something better. So you don’t do anything that will help.
For anyone who’s nodding their head right now – even in vague recognition, I have something for you.
I have developed a career storytelling workshop with a friend (and leadership coach) Sharon Kilmartin.
The idea is this.
Using a storytelling framework, in a small group setting, we get you to write down and share things that you’ve done that you’ve enjoyed, or that you’re proud of.
The group as a whole listens carefully, then feeds back to you the strengths they see in your story.
The only role of the group is to help you uncover the great in what you do.
It’s a simple idea, but works really powerfully.
We’re doing it because rarely does this kind of feedback happen.
Not at work.
Not in families.
Not in social groups.
Not in friendship groups.
I see so many benefits in not only having a clearer idea of what your strengths are – but to know there’s a supportive group out there who’s seen them too.
You get more clarity around roles you can apply for.
You get a clearer idea of your strengths.
Sharing in a group helps you own the space more.
The more you share your stories and unpack your strengths – the more you believe in them. The more you believe in them, the more you start to look for other evidence that you’ve demonstrated them. It becomes a positive feedback loop.
Hearing other people’s stories, helps give you ideas about what you can share.
When you feel good about yourself – you’re not so hard on others.
Anything that gets us off our phones and connecting in a positive way with others is a great life affirming thing.
Here are all the workshop details.
We’d just love to hear your stories and see you there.
Karalyn
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